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Looking at Life through the Eyes of Children when we wer children, everything we say was new, wonderful, exciting and unbelievable. We were happy if it was raining or snowing, if it was hot or cold, if it was night or day. We just wanted to discover all the things that were around us.
For us the only big difference was that we were awake or asleep. When we were awake, we wanted to extend the time just for playing with our friends or being with our pet a little more time.
But we can't stop time. Children grow and we become adults; and as adults, we no longer have enough time for little things --discovering a rainbow is not surprising, seeing a building with 50 floors is not amazing, and looking at agiraffe in the zoo is normal. A rainy day is a bad day because the traffic will be slow, and the first day of spring makes us think about allergies.
The first day of the month is not the beginning of a new months; it's the time to think about bills. Going to the supermarket is an obligation; it is not just for the pleasure of walking down the aisles and looking for things and seeing the people around us.
Life is a process in which everyone has many obligation, but if everyone tried to see life through the eyes of a child, I am sure that everyday could be better.
人生是一个持续履行义务的过程, 如果人人都能看到孩子眼里的人生, 我坚信每一天都会过的更美好. 男人用法一百种有人写了一本《死猫用法一百种》,死猫可以用来作不求人、椅子扶手、鸡毛扫、马桶刷等等,恨猫的人看了,十分痛快,爱猫的人看了,也会心微笑. 如果你对男人又爱又恨,不妨也设计一套《男人用法一百种》,以下随便介绍几种:
舔邮票:跟你的男人说:“吻我!”当他吐出舌头,你就把一枚邮票放在他的舌尖,然后拿去贴在信封上。 人肉沙包:心情不好时,可以拿他来练拳、滴蜡。 强力开瓶器:打不开的瓶盖都交给他。 自动按摩椅:坐在他身上,要他替你按摩。 天然暖炉:冬天拿他来取暖。 小型起重机:搬家,搬写字楼,所有你搬不动的东西,都找他来搬。 增值机:这个月的薪水花光了,就叫他为你的荷包暂时增值。 外卖速递员:想吃东西,又不想出去买,那就叫他买来好了。 软绵绵的枕头:在长途车或长途飞机上,把他的肩膊当作枕头。 超级垃圾桶:你不吃和吃剩的东西,统统给他吃。 只要动动脑筋,你会发现男人的用处真多,你怎么舍得离开他? 离家的日子每个人小时侯也许都有想过离家出走吧.在家里受了气,第一个念头,往往就是:我要走,一分钟也不想呆在这里了.有的人真的走了,有的人留下来了.我曾想过无数次要离家出走.到最后还是没有走,因为没胆量.钱是第一个反映在脑子里的问题,走出去后,怎么生活?拿什么养活自己?前思后想,还是放弃了.一个喜欢的表哥有过这样的经历,因为我舅舅要剪掉他那头留了好久的长发,为这个把我妈叫去开导他也有数回.每次都无功而返,终有一次和父母吵完一怒之下,不辞而别.当然结局是好的,人回来了,父母和他也达成协议--剪少点别太长了后来他才透露给我,原来他就没走远,一直在他家顶楼的天台上.我想还好当时是夏天的晚上那如果发生在下雪的冬天,或者刮着狂风的傍晚,他还会这么不管不顾吗?那就不得而知了.现在想想,当时我想要离家的心情是怎么也回忆不起来了,取而代之的却是无比的思对上海,对父母,对朋友,一切的一切,之前那些受父母约束的日子从我独自生活后开始变得越来越珍贵甚至向往,原来一个人没有的束缚是那么可怕的一件事.曾经一度向往自己有一天能离开父母自由自在,现在真的实现了却又想回去过被管束的日子... 留言薄 |
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